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News from www.DeathwithDignity.org "Respect the will of the people."

Personal stories like the ones featured on our blog in October by Andrew and Nora are why we work so hard to help more people understand Death with Dignity Acts. Death with Dignity is no longer an issue viable only in a few states on the west coast. It's a policy experiencing broad public support around the country. You can read more about our efforts to make this a reality in our Annual Report.

October also witnessed the loss of a brilliant mind, but for years before he was diagnosed with cancer, death was a daily meditation for Steve Jobs.

As part of our continued effort to wipe out the taboo of talking about death, our October online chat was about personal experiences with dying, and coming up on November 17th we're going to help people get ready to have the talk as part of the annual rally to Engage with Grace.

Check out these stories and more below and read the news as it happens on our blog, Living with Dying.

Sincerely,
Melissa Barber
Electronic Communications Specialist
Death with Dignity National Center

Meg's Death with Dignity
A guest post by Andrew Taylor
My wife Meg died on Saturday morning in the loving company of her brother, sister, son, daughter and husband.

Suffering from a disease that robs one of intellect and dignity, she had the option, as a Washington resident, to choose the time of her death. She used the provisions of Washington's Death with Dignity Act to hasten her death while she was still able to converse with and understand her family members. (Oregon has long had a very similar Death with Dignity Act; Vermont and Massachusetts are also considering similar laws.)

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2011 Annual Report
by Peg Sandeen, MSW, Executive Director
I'm pleased to present our 2011 Annual Report detailing the organizational activities undertaken by the Death with Dignity National Center during fiscal year 2010-2011. Our nation is facing difficult times, and economic issues are at the forefront of all policy discussions. And, yet, donors to the National Center have been exceedingly generous this past year. Your support has made it possible for us to continue our work improving end-of-life options for terminally ill individuals.

Relationships. Partnerships. Networking. These are the keywords best describing our activities of the past year. Focused on grassroots organizing, staff and board members of the Death with Dignity National Center have forged important alliances with advocacy groups, interested individuals, and medical professionals throughout New England.

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Experiences of a Dying Patient
A guest post by Nora Miller
The experience of a dying patient has a hundred different angles. Which angle tells the story?

From his point of view, my dying husband faced the end of all time. From the first day, we knew that his lung cancer was inoperable, untreatable, and already fatal, that the suggested chemo could only, possibly, slow the process a little. Each night my husband went to sleep knowing that his nights were numbered, that the next day would be one fewer of the heartbreakingly few remaining. He didn't have the option of "fighting," of "beating the odds" or "winning the battle." Every door he had imagined still open to him, the nursery business he had planned, the trip to Alaska he'd always put off for another year, the joy of seeing his only son graduate from college, get married and have a son of his own, the happy retirement spent with grandchildren, all slammed shut in a single moment. I think this awareness drove his decision to use Oregon's Death with Dignity law when the time came.

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Steve Jobs on Death and Dying
by Melissa Barber, Electronic Communications Specialist
If you live each day as if it was your last, someday, you’ll most certainly be right.

That's the quote Steve Jobs chose to begin telling the third story about the pivotal points in his life he shared with Stanford graduates in 2005. In our society, which is so averse to talking about death and dying, this speech caught my eye early in my work with the Death with Dignity National Center.

WATCH THE VIDEO >

      

In This Issue:


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Thank you, Donors!
Unlike many nonprofits, the Death with Dignity National Center is entirely funded through individual donations and private foundations. From all of us at the Death with Dignity National Center, thank you.

The Death with Dignity National Center, and its political affiliate — the Death with Dignity Political Action Fund — are working at full capacity to support both Massachusetts and Vermont.

GIVE FOR TOMORROW'S LAWS >

A Promise to Her Dying Husband
When Nancy's husband died an agonizing and painful death due to brain cancer, he asked her to promise she'd do everything she could to make sure Washington passed a Death with Dignity Act like Oregon. In 2008, her dream was realized: Washingtonians passed their Death with Dignity Act. In October, Nancy headed to Vermont to share the Oregon and Washington experience.

READ ABOUT NANCY'S TOUR >

Online Chat: Experiences with Death
The third Thursday of every month we host Twitter chats on different aspects of Death with Dignity. By participating in our TweetChats and tweeting publicly about Death with Dignity you help:

  • Raise awareness about Death with Dignity.
  • Meet others who support Death with Dignity.
  • Let your friends and family know Death with Dignity is important to you.

READ OCTOBER'S TRANSCRIPT >

Staff Spotlight
If you ever liked us or posted a comment on our Facebook page, received a tweet, joined a TweetChat, or read our blog, Living with Dying, you've communicated with Melissa.

MEET MELISSA >

Spread the Word
The carefully-crafted safeguards in the Oregon & Washington Death with Dignity Acts protect terminally ill people and place end-of-life decisions where they belong: in the hands of individuals. You and I know that, but do your friends?

The best way for us to ensure Death with Dignity is an option for all Americans is to tell to more people our story. Will you help us connect with your friends?

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Images: Meg Holmes by Andrew Taylor and Rick & Nora provided by Nora Miller.
Contact the editor at mbarber@deathwithdignity.org

Posted on November 3, 2011

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